Question

Hi! I began masturbating at a very young age; I was only eight years old then. My ejaculations began after three to four years, and then I was doing this even sometimes as much as four times a day. I continued that all through my teens. I am 20 years now, and I am proud to say that I have now given up my habit almost completely. But after going through your website, I have become scared once again. I have read here how it can cause severe irreversible problems, and not all of them are related to the penis. I am suffering from depressions and mood swings. I was thinking they have nothing to do with it, but after reading the articles on your site, I am worried whether my mental problems are because I was a heavy masturbator in the past.

But that is not all. I suffer from some other problems also. My vision is imperfect and sometimes I can see images floating before my eyes. I get eyespots also.

There are some indiscernible problems with my organ going on lately too. I tried having sex with a girlfriend lately, but though I was fully mentally aroused, I could not get a complete erection. It was a frustrating experience for both of us, and finally we ended up masturbating each other. My girlfriend also tells me – she's been with me for four years – that my organ is slowly reducing in size, but we both take it as a joke most of the time. But I am worried – am I really reaching male menopause even before my marriage?

Your website has set me thinking quite seriously. All these things that are going on with me are those you have mentioned to be effects of over masturbation. Could my ailments be because of over-masturbation also, though I have as good as kicked the habit? Please let me know. I and my girlfriend plan to get married when we come of age. I don’t want any problems to remain then. I have about five years before I can get completely healed and enter marriage. - - - Kyle Johnson

The Expert's Answer

Kyle, let me first tell you that you have indeed explained your problems quite beautifully. It does help me to get a very good picture of what you must be facing. You say that you have 'almost' kicked off the habit. But what is your definition of 'almost' considering that you were doing it as much as four times a day? You might be down to once a day now, and that is also not good either. In a case as severe as yours, nothing but total abstinence from it could help to reverse the symptoms. Are you willing to give up your habit 'completely' and not just 'almost'? For only then will any kind of treatment make sense.

Since you have already read the articles on this website, I do not need to go into them again. I will just suffice to tell that OM can bring on all the mental and physical problems you have mentioned. It is a pleasurable activity, no doubt, but the pleasure comes at the expense of the burdening of the nervous system. Your brain is also involved, as it triggers the whole excitation process by the release of hormones. If you have been heavily masturbating, there's a very high chance that your brain and your nervous system are now heavily stressed out. Come to think of it, how did you perform in your exams? When boys do it heavily, it usually shows in their poor results. Though they may not have severe mental problems in their boyhood, there could be a loss of concentration and a general lack of mental capacity. That explains their faring poorly in exams. And as time passes, other mental problems such as depressions, mood swings, hallucinations, etc. occur.

You must also realize that it is the nervous system that sends all kinds of sensory signals to the brain. That includes optical signals. In your case, since the brain and the nervous system both have been impaired, you are having all those visual problems you have explained.

By doing it as much as four times a day, there is no doubt that your hand muscles – including your biceps and your triceps – must have developed beautifully! But what about the muscles of the organ itself? Your organ is a delicate organ with nothing in it but spongy tissues that fill with blood when aroused. Many times when we perform this, we do not realize it, but we are harming these tissues of the organ. That is one more reason why the organ does not become fully erect – since all the tissues of the organ are not able to get engorged.

Now, do not start brooding about all this. I have told you all this so that you may understand that it is indeed your habit that has caused the plethora of ailments that you have mentioned. But the ship is not entirely sunk.

Ginseng is the best medicine for all these conditions. It can help you make your organ strong once again, and can also improve your mental capacity. You can go for Paradizo products, which contain the Indian ginseng, Ashwagandha, as its main product. This is a world-tested drug, and has almost no side-effects. Regular use of this product line will bring your sexual health and mental health back to normal, much before the time you intend to marry.

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