Question

First of all, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the commendable job you are doing in dealing with sexual health problems. There are many sites on the Internet for that, but your website deals with the problem in a personal way, which makes it easier for reserved people like me to come ahead with their problems.

I have been perusing your website since last year. My penis was a short five inches back then. I tried the ballooning method which you have detailed on your website. Let me tell you why I preferred this method over others. The first reason was that this method did not require me to communicate with anybody about the matter; I could do everything myself. Secondly, this method required no equipment, which I needed to buy with embarrassment. But, again kudos to you, the ballooning method worked for me quite well. Within a year, there has been a definite improvement in the size of my organ. My five inch organ has now become of seven inches.

I think my problem is solved, since a seven inch organ is quite adequate and my wife loves it very much too. She says that she is able to handle it very nicely in every way imaginable. However, just for curiosity, I would like to know, if I were to continue the jelquing for more time, then will my organ grow longer, or have I reached the maximum limit.

Another curiosity point I need to discuss with you is, why are people – both men and women fascinated with long penises? My wife is very happy with my seven inch erection, but I have seen men on pornographic sites with gigantic organs, which could be even ten to twelve inches long, I do not know. What is the fascination with such big organs? My wife actually says they will be quite difficult to manage, and even very cumbersome for the man himself.

The Expert’s Answer

Yes, you actually have no reason to complain about the size. You have got a seven inch now, which is quite a healthy size. Normally, if your organ is about the total size of your palm and one middle finger width more, then that is perhaps the maximum natural size your organ can reach. That makes its width more than adequate for your female partner, as you have already indicated this is so.

It seems that jelquing has worked very excellently for you. That is indeed good, because this massaging technique can backfire if done wrongly, and the person may even end up disfiguring the organ. You seem to have done it in the right way and hence, the enviable length increase that you have achieved. Now, since you have reached the maximum length, I do not think you must continue jelquing any more. The size is not going to show any further appreciable increase. Instead you can use the Orgy Massage Oil now to add to the firmness and hardness of your recently elongated organ.

You have raised the issue of length fascination in your question. It is really very hard to say why people of both sexes – the man who has the penis and the woman who actually gets excited by it – want long organs. A long organ does not perform any better in the sexual act than a medium-sized one. But the attraction is purely visual. Women get excited when they see long organs on their men, which makes them look more masculine for them. Also, for the men, longer organ satisfy their egos better.

Also, in the world of pornography, bigger is better. That explains why big dicks are the norm in there. But at the same time, one must remember that very few of the female porn actresses actually arrive at their orgasms. Most of the times, they are just faking it.

Your wife is right. A large size is indeed inconvenient for sexual penetration. The man will find it difficult to pump in, and the woman might actually find the whole situation painful. Having an oversized organ is also very cumbersome to other types of sex, such as anal and oral. In conclusion, I would say a big size will only bring more inconveniences into the sexual act, even if it is purported that it makes the man feel more masculine. It is more of a psychological thing than a biological thing.

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